Motherhood is not Selfish

Today I watched a private video post between myself and another individual on Seesmic, and what she had to say about motherhood is a gem I can’t pass up not sharing. I transcribed some of what she had to say.  Please read it with an open mind.

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Recent Wisdom my Ex-Husband Gave Me

What [our child] does isn’t a direct reflection of our parenting [ability or inadequacies] and isn’t an exact indicator of whether we’re good or bad parents… We’re not always around [our child] and can’t control the decisions he makes himself during times he has control over his actions.

Blog Nosh - I’m Featured!

Today one of my archived blog posts is featured over a Blog Nosh (magazine) in the Pregnancy/Birth/Adoption channel. I feel famous!

“Blog Nosh Magazine is an online magazine dedicated to promoting the best archived posts from your own personal blogs. “

Thank you Marcie from A Child Chosen and My Two Boys for selecting one of my blog posts for Blog Nosh and complimenting me (big time!) with your comment, “Krissi is one of my favorite adoption bloggers not only because of her loud and proud adoption voice but because she says it like she sees it. I love reading about her experiences, other’s comments, and her sarcastic and flippant reactions to the public and media.

Rock on!

Adoption: Rebirth(dating) a Child

When we adopted my son (2000) there was a fairly common (but maybe somewhat unknown?) practice of giving an internationally adopted child a “new” birth date to more suitably match his/her retarded physical/social/emotional development caused by years of institutionalization.

Sometimes a kid would end up (on paper) a whole year or 18 months YOUNGER than he/she actually was.

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